Hey, Hey! Welcome to “In the DRIVER’S Seat: Your Fun-Sized Guide to Decoding Body Language & Nudging Human Behavior!” Janine DRIVER here, bringing you some laughs and learning for the New Year. Ready for a new you?!
You won't believe this! Two days ago, I had the best "Alphabet Dating" day in DC with my boyfriend. It was "S" day, and oh boy, did he surprise me! Before we went star-gazing, we did this super FUN scavenger hunt on an app – like a treasure hunt, but in the city.
How cool is that? 🌟✨
Video above: Alphabet Dating with Janine Driver and her boyfriend, Antone Neugass, on the “S” date. The date took place in Washington DC along the mall and later, in Virginia where they went stargazing (Dec. 26, 2023). Songs: “Looney Tunes” Theme: “The Merry-Go-Round Broke Down” by Cliff Friend and Dave Franklin, 1937 (Wikipedia); “The Office” Theme: Composed by Jay Ferguson, performed by Bob Thiele Jr., Hal Cragin, Brian Macleod/Dillon O’Brian, and Jimmy Paxson (NBC Insider).
While strolling past iconic buildings and monuments in DC, I couldn't help but notice those magnificent Roman columns – Doric, Ionic, Corinthian – everywhere. This took me back to when my son, Angus, was a first-grader turning toilet paper rolls into these columns. His impressions were hilarious! Doric was "boring" in his low, monotone voice, Ionic was all fancy hand scrolls, and Corinthian? Angus held it high and declared it "very fancy" in a tone that would make the King jealous. So, why not compare some celebs and famous people to these columns and see which Roman column you might be (if any)?
Let's DRIVE in! So Buckle up, it's gonna be FUN!
But first, why should you read this?
Reading an article that compares body language to the three Roman columns (Doric, Ionic, Corinthian) and connects these styles with various celebrities can be highly beneficial and intriguing for several reasons:
1. Enhanced Understanding of Body Language: The comparison to Roman columns offers a unique framework for understanding body language. The distinct characteristics of each column (Doric's strength and simplicity, Ionic's grace and balance, and Corinthian's complexity and flamboyance) provide a fresh perspective on human non-verbal communication. This approach can help readers identify and interpret different body language cues more effectively.
2. Celebrity Examples for Relatable Learning: By associating these columns with celebrities known for their distinctive styles, the article makes the concept more relatable and engaging. Celebrities often exemplify specific personality traits and body language, making it easier for readers to recognize these patterns in real-life scenarios. This comparative method can be both educational and entertaining, enhancing the reader's ability to analyze and understand people's non-verbal cues.
3. Self-Reflection and Personal Development: The article's invitation to evaluate which Roman column you might align with encourages introspection and personal growth. Understanding your own body language style can lead to improved self-awareness and communication skills. It can also inspire changes in your non-verbal behavior to more effectively convey your desired message in various social and professional situations.
Plus, it's FUN to imagine which Roman column you'd be. Maybe you're a Doric on Mondays but a Corinthian on Fridays?
Doric Column: The Strong, Silent Type
Solid and straightforward, like that friend who doesn't need words to make a point.
Body Language Example: Standing tall with shoulders squared and feet firmly planted. This posture exudes confidence and authority, often seen in leaders.
Scientific Insight: A study by Carney, Cuddy, and Yap (2010) in the journal 'Psychological Science' found that power poses, resembling the Doric column's sturdy and straightforward structure, can increase testosterone and decrease cortisol, affecting one's feelings of power and tolerance for risk.
Doric-Style Celebs Include:
Denzel Washington & Meryl Streep: All about that commanding presence.
Serena Williams & Tom Hanks: Reliability? They wrote the book on it.
Helen Mirren & Morgan Freeman: Cool, calm, collected.
Angela Merkel: The steady hand steering the ship.
Jackie Chan: The martial arts legend who lets his actions do the talking.
Ionic Column: The Fancy Talker
Imagine someone who can charm birds out of trees with just a smile and a gesture.
Body Language Example: Nodding in agreement, maintaining steady eye contact, and leaning slightly forward during conversations. This reflects engagement and understanding, akin to the elegant curves of the Ionic column.
Scientific Insight: Research by Mehrabian (1971) suggests that nonverbal cues, such as those resonating with Ionic's grace, can be more influential in conveying emotions and attitudes than the spoken word.
Ionic-Style Celebs Include:
Idris Elba & George Clooney: These guys could sell ice to Eskimos.
Cate Blanchett & Benedict Cumberbatch: Elegance personified.
Emma Watson & David Beckham: Grace on and off the field.
Roger Federer: The tennis court's answer to Fred Astaire.
Michelle Yeoh: Action star and grace under pressure? She's got it.
Corinthian Column: The Drama Queen
All about making an entrance and turning heads.
Body Language Example: Frequent hand gestures while speaking, a relaxed posture, and expressive facial expressions. This mirrors the ornate and intricate nature of the Corinthian column, indicating creativity and openness.
Scientific Insight: A study by Krauss et al. (2000) in the “Journal of Personality and…
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